Investigating a little bit made me discover that my flyback can be replaced by the thordarson fly 222
https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/Thordarso...-/401476024832
found this one but the guy doesnt ship to here and he doesnt allow any contact to be made
i also did not have anything better to do so i removed the high voltage rectifier 1b3gt and replaced it with a selenium solid state diode (those white ceramic sticks used in 70's tvs) i used the anode wire and cup from another tv and the thing worked , no arcing or anything...the horizontal output kept glowing blue though...i also was able to draw good arcs maybe 8mm. the horizontal squeal seems a bit off of the usual frequency to my ears, maybe since the set had so many botched up parts they probably detuned the ringing coil preety badly to get it to work.
the plus point is that i have full screen vertical deflection at the first try.
what i need now is to go to bed because here its 2 o'clock in the morning and i need to keep my itchy hands off of the tv until the new tubes arrive!